How I met my Girlfriend

Being the fitness freak I am I have always spent my time being in the gym or researching for equipment and diet which can give me the extra boost to create a healthy body. My best buddy and sister would always be by my side to assist me while making a choice between the various equipment and diet plans I wanted to experiment. One year back my sister got married and went off to live with her husband and around the same time my best friend for an offshore assignment. I was left all alone and then I suddenly realized how much dependent I was on both of them not only for the time when I had to make the choices but also for an emotional and mental support. While talking to my best friend a month after he had left he made me realize that I needed a partner to fill the void in my life.

Fitness Couple

Fitness Freak Couple

The search begins

Since I was not socially very much involved within the community the only option I had was online search for a partner whom I could share my emotions and depend for my daily dose of motivation, who would hear me out and would understand my feelings and ensure that I didn’t feel alone.

questions to ask before meeting

Online dating questions to ask before meeting

Searching for a dating website was not much of a task since interracialdatingcentral was a hands down choice as it was suggested by my sister and of course my friend who earlier coaxed me to join it. While making an account for myself I was a bit reluctant to share my bodybuilding and exercising interests however these were the only things I knew so I didn’t have much of a choice.

Compatibility was quick and easy

As soon as I was on the website I was flooded with suggestions and chat with girls that were located around me was pretty easy. Since I was looking to date seriously I purchased the subscription for the website which opened up a lot of facilities within the website for me. I was able to sift through the list and pick on one particular girl who a few images of her showing her exercising. It was an instant action from my side to contact her and send her a message complimenting her about the choice of fitness equipment she was using (I use almost same equipment at my gym).

We made sparks fly online

She was quick to respond. Later I came to know that I was the only one who complimented he on the choice of equipment she was using all other messages she received were about the king of body shape and face she had. She has a cute face. We started messaging to and fro on interracialdatingcentral right away. The conversation started on gym equipment went on to the diet plans, warm up exercises we did and ended by sharing our skype ids.

From Online to phone to the first date

AS soon as I logged out from interracialdatingcentral I received a notification on my skype and guess what she had added me on her skype. She was quite excited to talk to me and I had butterflies in my stomach. We had a video chat but was not able to catch a glimpse of her. She just showed me around her personal gym and we talked a bit more on our schedule and fitness techniques. At the end of the skype call we had exchanged our phone numbers with a plan to meet on the weekend.

Online dating questions to ask before meeting

Dating Questions

It was still 4 days for the weekend to arrive and I was excited for the first date. We were texting each other online via skype and there were still a few questions in my mind which I needed to ask before the actual meeting. These Online dating questions to ask before meeting are quite important for any individual since they will decide the way your date and your relationship is going to shape up in future.

I didn’t have a long list neither did she have too many questions still the questions we had while dating online that we were to ask each other before meeting were quite important. The serious one from my side was just one question “What are you looking from for in this relationship”. The answer she gave was something that made me feel that Yes I need to go in for this relationship. She told me that she was looking for love, stability and emotional support. Of course I was looking for emotional support and love and stability was a bonus for me.

She had questions about my idea of my weekend, my family, my embarrassing moments, education and of course the passion about my fitness. We were now eager to meet once another after the initial round of questions and answers while dating online. Come weekend and we met at an upscale café which was chosen by me. She came and I was floored by her grace. We had planned a one hour meeting but we spent six hours together and I ended up dropping her home. WE have our homes at a driving distance of 20 minutes. She joined the gym I go to exercise the very next month and it has been almost one year and we are still together.